i have been going out with a girl for a month or so and i love her. i have been bad about cheating before and I told her I would never do that to her. well, guess what, I did. but it was very different this time. I am wracked with guilt and I feel horrible and I feel like I will feel like a scumbag for a very long time. I feel like I should

1. break up with her so she’s not with a scum like me
2. tell her i did so she’s not with a scum like me
3. since it’s only been a month, just sort of suck it up, feel like a bastard about it, treat her like a goddess, and look back on it in a couple months / years about how stupid it was.