I met a guy when I was 17 and totally fell in love, then he just left me. I tracked him down 16 years later and found out he left me because his ex-g/f was pregnant, and they got married. There’s still a spark between us and I’d like to leave my husband of 13 years, but my husband has a terminal illness and if I stay I get everything. I still love my husband, but I think I love my ex more.