my girlfriend has put on a lot of weight since we met a year ago. i want to break up with her, and i’m not sure if it is just the weight, or other things. she’s chunky, getting chunkier, smokes. i’m basically embarassed to be out with her. but i won’t break up with her because i don’t know if these things really bother me enough to leave her. wtf does that say about me? would i stay with her if she were thin? wtf would that say about me? i’m spineless.