I often build up women to be these giants in my head that I can only worship from afar. It makes me feel like a stalker. But… it’s the only way I feel like I can get to know them… I always end up talking to the girls, but I still feel weird. It’s like… doing research before the big presentation or the trial. You have to know your audience. If you can know before the fact not to talk about carrot cake cause it makes her sick… then isn’t that a good thing? I still feel like a stalker, though.