My girlfriend cheated on me and I forgave her for it because I love her. But now I feel hopelessly inadequate in any situation. I even told her to not to regret it or be sorry, because when it happened we weren’t ‘official’ even though we both said that we loved each other.

I want her to regret it and burst into tears every time she sees me.

I’m so scared of losing her. I’m pathetic.