I slept with a man behind my fiancée’s back – I feel really ashamed but think that to tell her would be to cause more harm. I’m a sex addict and the ‘event’ has given me cause to reflect deeply on my behaviour and seek some help. Believe it or not I’m not gay or bi sexual, I’m just a sex addict. The thought of sleeping with a man makes me feel sick but when I’m in the malady I’ll do almost anything sexual for my own gratification. I’ve asked god for forgiveness and direction in all my affairs but I must confess this to another human being – so there it is .
