I think my girlfriend is transgender and is finding it difficult to tell me. She sometimes makes comments about how she wishes she didn’t have a vagina, refers to herself as male on occasion, and always chooses male characters in video games.
Along with her decision not to immediately attend college, this may be the dealbreaker. We’ve been dating four years and I don’t want to hurt her, but this isn’t going to work.
I’m a lesbian, and gender does matter to me. Transgender people are fine by me, but chances are, I’m not going to be attracted to FtM. I like breasts, I like GIRLS playing with me and having sex with me. Not men.
Everything in my life is falling apart.