I think I’ve been dealing with my hurt from my ex breaking up with me in a rather stalker-like way. I constantly check his AIM profile and have mangaed to acrew a large list of AIM profiles of his friends from home that I also constantly check. I want to always know what he is doing and what the people around him are doing. I first started figuring out the webs of people he knows as a way to deal with my hurt, but now it has become something of a hobby. Thats how I found this site.