I am 28. I lost my virginity at 27. This makes me feel like a loser, despite the fact that I have a lot going for me – great job, great friends, great life. The man I slept with is a dickhead. He picks me up and drops me whenever he pleases, and I let him. I never turn him away. I am lonely. Everybody thinks I am a highpowered, independent career woman who would never dream of finding ‘the one’ and settling down. On the contrary, that is ALL I think about.