I’m really annoyed with my boyfriend constantly playing the victim card. He’s 35 and claims that he has had just the roughest life because his parents got divorced when he was young and he’s had girlfriends in the past cheat on him. At first, I thought those girlfriends were jerks. Now I totally get why they cheated. All he wants to do is play stupid video games. He works a job he hates, but refuses to do anything to better his situation – I even put in applications for him at other places, places that he’d actually like to work at, but instead all he focuses on are his stupid video games. It’s unbelievable. But when I try to help him with his situation, it’s all “whoa is me, my life is so awful, you don’t understand, video games are the only thing that help me escape from my awful life.”
Well guess what, you can’t live in a fucking video game. So get your head out of your ass. If your situation is so miserable, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Stop your fucking bitching and complaining and whining about it. And don’t accuse me of whining and bitching – if I complain, I DO SOMETHING TO FIX THE PROBLEM.
He’s never been married, and if he keeps this shit up, he never will be married.