I was 16 when my older g/f cheated on me with my friend. I then cheated on her with another of my friends (guy). This depresses me not b/c I am a male but because It was morally wrong to cheat on her. This makes me cry when I think about and that depresses me too. On the other hand my g/f left left me so now I have absolutely nothing good, seeing as that was several years ago and it still hurts me very much.