I am a late 30’s male. married, and am poised on the brink of having some kind of encounter or another with at least two women. It is completely within my reach to “conssumate” my relationship with these other potential lovers, but I am so torn apart by it. That’s the funny part – isn’t that what every guy wants? Yet here it is, and I am really questioning if I want it or not. I mean…isn’t there somethign else I should be doing with my time and energy?