I’m starting to fall for one of my female friends. I’m 24 and have been married for several years. My wife is great, but I can’t stop thinking about this friend of mine. She’s very physically attractive, but I think I’m more attracted to her personality. We share all our deepest secrets (except for my love for her) and I just feel closer to her, like I can tell her anything. When we go out and do stuff together alone, in my mind I imagine that we’re really a couple and it makes me feel good. I often fantasize about what it’d be like to be with her. I don’t think she shares the same feelings. My wife barely even knows she exists. I contemplate breaking off the friendship, which is a really shitty thing to do, but I’m not sure if I can handle it anymore.
